“Miranda Yardley”

18 Oct


6 Responses to ““Miranda Yardley””

  1. Tom 2016/10/19 at 3:34 pm #

    So, I’m sitting here, thinking about where I am in life, what to do from this point as I am at a major juncture in my life. While thinking about this, I wonder to myself in the span of about half second:

    1. Maybe I just the world to look at me as a girl, would I then be happier?
    2. If only I could switch my gender around at will and see how I felt about it.
    3. I would never switch bac–

    And then I cut myself off from this line of thought. My mind goes “Why think such stupid things”, and I type into google, out of frustration, without knowing that this website exists: “There are so many things wrong with this”, because I am thinking this is all just a waste of time and energy to even think about.

    Hello. What the hell just happened?


    • Miep 2016/10/19 at 3:51 pm #

      That’s my top search term, almost always. Blog title win.


      • Tom 2016/10/19 at 4:09 pm #

        What am I going to do, though? This is just ridiculous. I don’t want it enough to go through the effort, like the hormones and the operation and all that. I’m just confused from watching too much porn and being alone for so long, I’m sure of it. With a girl by my side I wouldn’t be in this place that I am now.

        I’ve always felt like the whole idea of gender, and especially matching one or the other to a particular biological sex to be kind of irrelevant (for myself, at least). Like, why would it matter which bits I have, so long as I can act like myself, right?

        I just need to figure out a way to do human relations.

        Hey, are you Dutch by any chance? Miep is a very typical Dutch name. Then it could be even more of a ridiculous coincidence that I found your blog.


        • Miep 2016/10/19 at 4:17 pm #

          Medical transitioning is often seen as a solution to problems that ultimately it does not solve. In your case, you are looking for a female partner, right? Transitioning will *not* make you attractive to lesbians and it will substantially decrease the number of straight women who find you of interest.

          This is not to say that men who medically transition never hook up with anybody, but it’s not a solution to romantic lacunae.

          Neither is watching porn.

          Nope, not Dutch, though I am aware of my name being Dutch.


          • Tom 2016/10/19 at 4:20 pm #

            Yeah… I think if I was a girl, I would be looking for a male partner. I’m pretty sure I’d be heterosexual no matter which gender I am.


    • Aine 2016/11/03 at 7:06 am #

      Don’t mutilate yourself. Tom. It won’t fix things. You won’t become female, you would just have mutilated and damaged yourself forever. If you really could become female, you would find that it’s nothing like the romantic idea in your head.

      Sounds like you know this already.


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